Annoying people.
Do you enjoy annoying people? At op sessions is that part of YOUR fun? So I fly or drive a long way at great expense, I try to play the game to the best of my ability, and try to be the best “Employee”of the host railroad I can be. And your personal measure of success is that you’ve pissed off fellow operators.
As a general rule if I’m annoyed enough I leave. I used to leave quietly. Now I make sure the layout owner knows why I’m leaving and as a general rule I never come back.
I try not to bad mouth anyone publicly, in fact I usually only share the specifics with a very select few. I’ve grown to realize that different people will have completely different reactions to other people; you make up your own mind. I will generally not allow comments to cloud my opinions of others I have not yet met.
In my case, almost every person that I’ve heard negative comments about, usually turns out to be “okay” by me. I know I’m an acquired taste, so I will always give other people the benefit of the doubt.
However if your enjoyment of an op session is somehow derived by spoiling mine, I can become fairly unpleasant.
Never forgive, never forget.
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